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		<title>By: Amy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 May 2010 22:34:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am writing a paper on how technology has a negative effect in our lives and I agree with you. Each holiday I rarely get a call wishing me Merry Christmas or Happy New Year, it&#039;s always a text. We are seemingly forgetting how to talk to each other face-to-face.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am writing a paper on how technology has a negative effect in our lives and I agree with you. Each holiday I rarely get a call wishing me Merry Christmas or Happy New Year, it&#8217;s always a text. We are seemingly forgetting how to talk to each other face-to-face.</p>
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		<title>By: NLP Editor</title>
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		<dc:creator>NLP Editor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2009 08:11:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What a facinating article. I&#039;m looking for an NLP expert to help with a project, could you help?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a facinating article. I&#8217;m looking for an NLP expert to help with a project, could you help?</p>
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		<title>By: James Nicholls</title>
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		<dc:creator>James Nicholls</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Dec 2008 15:39:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>David&#039;s point about ambiguity is very true. As well as learning to be comfortable with ambiguity developers also need to learn that managers and business bods view the world as much more imprecise than they do. This often causes issues in understanding - a classic I come across regularly is the meaning of cost estimates for design and build effort, given before we have any understanding of what we are doing.

Developers do not like them, loathe giving them and do not see the value as they are inaccurate. Business bods love them, know they are inaccurate, and use them for decision making only. Developers need to learn to view them from a business bod / manager viewpoint ot see the real busines value of these high level costings.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>David&#8217;s point about ambiguity is very true. As well as learning to be comfortable with ambiguity developers also need to learn that managers and business bods view the world as much more imprecise than they do. This often causes issues in understanding &#8211; a classic I come across regularly is the meaning of cost estimates for design and build effort, given before we have any understanding of what we are doing.</p>
<p>Developers do not like them, loathe giving them and do not see the value as they are inaccurate. Business bods love them, know they are inaccurate, and use them for decision making only. Developers need to learn to view them from a business bod / manager viewpoint ot see the real busines value of these high level costings.</p>
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		<title>By: David Muir</title>
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		<dc:creator>David Muir</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Dec 2008 17:04:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ambiguity is something developers need to learn to feel comfortable with. Communications, especially face-to-face discussions, are never as black and white as computer logic. The challenge is to know how to get a computer to cooperate and then turn around and get a human to cooperate -- tapping into a vastly different skill set.

As Chris pointed out, action is spawned by direct interaction -- so it is an essential part of bringing a diverse team together and get them all rowing in the same direction.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ambiguity is something developers need to learn to feel comfortable with. Communications, especially face-to-face discussions, are never as black and white as computer logic. The challenge is to know how to get a computer to cooperate and then turn around and get a human to cooperate &#8212; tapping into a vastly different skill set.</p>
<p>As Chris pointed out, action is spawned by direct interaction &#8212; so it is an essential part of bringing a diverse team together and get them all rowing in the same direction.</p>
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		<title>By: Oana Juncu</title>
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		<dc:creator>Oana Juncu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Dec 2008 15:06:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m happy to jump in this discussion! In fact, in our team dynamics I don&#039;t advice using any virtual tool to enable stand-ups, sprint dashboard, whatsoever... The visual advancement of the &quot;stories post-it wave&quot; on the board ( from to do, ongoing, done) is the best follow-up tool we&#039;ve ever experienced. Team stay motivated, Product Owners and other decisioners passing by have a &quot;quick view&quot;.
And to add a comment to Chris point on ROI: we do &quot;ROTI vote&quot; after each retrospective, it&#039;s an activity that seem valued by everybody, but the evaluatiun is of course subjective. Still it helps to improve meeting effcency.
Best,

Oana</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m happy to jump in this discussion! In fact, in our team dynamics I don&#8217;t advice using any virtual tool to enable stand-ups, sprint dashboard, whatsoever&#8230; The visual advancement of the &#8220;stories post-it wave&#8221; on the board ( from to do, ongoing, done) is the best follow-up tool we&#8217;ve ever experienced. Team stay motivated, Product Owners and other decisioners passing by have a &#8220;quick view&#8221;.<br />
And to add a comment to Chris point on ROI: we do &#8220;ROTI vote&#8221; after each retrospective, it&#8217;s an activity that seem valued by everybody, but the evaluatiun is of course subjective. Still it helps to improve meeting effcency.<br />
Best,</p>
<p>Oana</p>
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		<title>By: Lisa Darling</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lisa Darling</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Dec 2008 22:01:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To answer, I do believe that we have forgotten to communicate. Emails, IM, and Wikis do serve their purpose but there is a perfect form of communication for every message and I believe that people have forgotten how to talk to each other. I want to thank Chris for his suggestion to calculate an action item ratio, that is a great idea and I believe that will be something my company will benefit from. We have recently implemented staff meetings (amazing, I know). That was a huge step for our company because we used email as a primary form of communication and we needed a better solution for managing our projects. An action item ratio just may be the perfect way to help us save our staff meetings and ensure they are as effective as possible.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To answer, I do believe that we have forgotten to communicate. Emails, IM, and Wikis do serve their purpose but there is a perfect form of communication for every message and I believe that people have forgotten how to talk to each other. I want to thank Chris for his suggestion to calculate an action item ratio, that is a great idea and I believe that will be something my company will benefit from. We have recently implemented staff meetings (amazing, I know). That was a huge step for our company because we used email as a primary form of communication and we needed a better solution for managing our projects. An action item ratio just may be the perfect way to help us save our staff meetings and ensure they are as effective as possible.</p>
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		<title>By: Dave Aronson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dave Aronson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2008 17:37:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sometimes communications are important but not urgent. So long as people scan the wiki for recent changes (most have some kind of way to get a list of changed pages and their specific changes), a wiki is perfectly acceptable for this kind of communication. Likewise email, twitter, etc., assuming no need for a centralized repository. Of COURSE these will not do for things that are urgent, or worst of all, Really Should be done face to face, like Difficult Conversations, but that is a minority.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes communications are important but not urgent. So long as people scan the wiki for recent changes (most have some kind of way to get a list of changed pages and their specific changes), a wiki is perfectly acceptable for this kind of communication. Likewise email, twitter, etc., assuming no need for a centralized repository. Of COURSE these will not do for things that are urgent, or worst of all, Really Should be done face to face, like Difficult Conversations, but that is a minority.</p>
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		<title>By: Greg Bohrn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Greg Bohrn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Nov 2008 17:59:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Personally, I see a lack of focus and leadership in the industry. We spend a lot of time using this process or that methodology or that reporting mechanism. We really need to focus on the basics. Effective communications. Team troubleshooting. Responsibility and authority delegation. Accountability for actions. And just plain leadership. We have a lot of managers in our industry and very few leaders. I&#039;ve used a variety of methodologies to deliver product, report progress, facilitate results reporting, etc. SCRUM, Agile, XP, FDD, Interative(SDLC), even the dreaded waterfall. One of the things we forget is that this is a human engineering business. People on your team need to understand the benefit of what you are trying to do or you&#039;ll fail. We also need to be able to lead as managers / architects / leads. Someone at the end of the day has to make the decision on what the team will do, who is responsible for what, what action items, milestones, etc we are trying to accomplish and when they are expected to be done, by who and what their dependencies are. I&#039;ve worked in a variety of matrix organizations and the number one problem I have seen year after year is the lack of decision making and accountability. We report progress easy enough. But, what I see is a lack of leadership when responding to requirement changes, architecture / design / code reviews, action item assignment, controlling feature creep, etc. It&#039;s pretty frustrating, especially when companies follow the model &quot;We hire the best and just let them get the work done&quot;. My experience is that the best can sometime self-organize and get the work down, but more times than not you will end up with direction conflict and blame or job dissatisfaction.

I would like to see more leadership in this industry of ours and less management. I think I may be a bit off topic and I apologize for the rant.

We need to make sure our communication, whether it be email, wikis, meetings(local and remote) are focused and effective. Meetings, in particular, should have goals behind them determined before hand and metered to keep people on topic and focused. SCRUM meetings are nice as long as they are focused. All types of meetings should have an initial agenda and make sure you accomplish the purpose of the meeting and shelf ratholes to be discussed afterwards.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Personally, I see a lack of focus and leadership in the industry. We spend a lot of time using this process or that methodology or that reporting mechanism. We really need to focus on the basics. Effective communications. Team troubleshooting. Responsibility and authority delegation. Accountability for actions. And just plain leadership. We have a lot of managers in our industry and very few leaders. I&#8217;ve used a variety of methodologies to deliver product, report progress, facilitate results reporting, etc. SCRUM, Agile, XP, FDD, Interative(SDLC), even the dreaded waterfall. One of the things we forget is that this is a human engineering business. People on your team need to understand the benefit of what you are trying to do or you&#8217;ll fail. We also need to be able to lead as managers / architects / leads. Someone at the end of the day has to make the decision on what the team will do, who is responsible for what, what action items, milestones, etc we are trying to accomplish and when they are expected to be done, by who and what their dependencies are. I&#8217;ve worked in a variety of matrix organizations and the number one problem I have seen year after year is the lack of decision making and accountability. We report progress easy enough. But, what I see is a lack of leadership when responding to requirement changes, architecture / design / code reviews, action item assignment, controlling feature creep, etc. It&#8217;s pretty frustrating, especially when companies follow the model &#8220;We hire the best and just let them get the work done&#8221;. My experience is that the best can sometime self-organize and get the work down, but more times than not you will end up with direction conflict and blame or job dissatisfaction.</p>
<p>I would like to see more leadership in this industry of ours and less management. I think I may be a bit off topic and I apologize for the rant.</p>
<p>We need to make sure our communication, whether it be email, wikis, meetings(local and remote) are focused and effective. Meetings, in particular, should have goals behind them determined before hand and metered to keep people on topic and focused. SCRUM meetings are nice as long as they are focused. All types of meetings should have an initial agenda and make sure you accomplish the purpose of the meeting and shelf ratholes to be discussed afterwards.</p>
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		<title>By: James Nicholls</title>
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		<dc:creator>James Nicholls</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Nov 2008 17:24:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree, developers do have a reputation as poor communicators. However I don&#039;t think it is acceptable. Communication skills are an integral part of any role and should be the defacto standard for developers.

Better communication reduces the view that IT people live in an ivory tower.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree, developers do have a reputation as poor communicators. However I don&#8217;t think it is acceptable. Communication skills are an integral part of any role and should be the defacto standard for developers.</p>
<p>Better communication reduces the view that IT people live in an ivory tower.</p>
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		<title>By: Jason Hotham</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jason Hotham</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Nov 2008 13:14:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>An aspect that also should be considered, as it is spawned by good communication practices, is conflict management. Best-case communication is always hoped for, but not always present. How does the team handle conflicts that arise from the implementation of communication practices? This is an interesting question, probably big enough for its own thread, but nonetheless should be mentioned in this context.

I have been around people who can talk and spin so cleverly that at the end, the group resembles the end frame of a well written Dilbert strip. Talking, good...listening, also good...but where does that lead?

Great discussion topic Chris!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>An aspect that also should be considered, as it is spawned by good communication practices, is conflict management. Best-case communication is always hoped for, but not always present. How does the team handle conflicts that arise from the implementation of communication practices? This is an interesting question, probably big enough for its own thread, but nonetheless should be mentioned in this context.</p>
<p>I have been around people who can talk and spin so cleverly that at the end, the group resembles the end frame of a well written Dilbert strip. Talking, good&#8230;listening, also good&#8230;but where does that lead?</p>
<p>Great discussion topic Chris!</p>
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		<title>By: Anna Forss</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anna Forss</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Nov 2008 06:42:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think the most important task for a product owner and a scrum master is communication. How do we know the validity and priority of product backlog items/stories without a constant dialog? How do we know who has the best input on the implementation of a sprint backlog item/task without constant dialog? How does operations and other stakeholders know how to plan for future releases without constant dialog?

And dialogs are both visual and verbal. The meeting of actual people can never be replaced by e-mails and such: these are just complements.

The same goes with meetings. It is funny because there are formal meetings and informal meetings and there should really be room for both. When we talk about useless meetings - how often do we mean the informal meetings? But do we plan for them?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the most important task for a product owner and a scrum master is communication. How do we know the validity and priority of product backlog items/stories without a constant dialog? How do we know who has the best input on the implementation of a sprint backlog item/task without constant dialog? How does operations and other stakeholders know how to plan for future releases without constant dialog?</p>
<p>And dialogs are both visual and verbal. The meeting of actual people can never be replaced by e-mails and such: these are just complements.</p>
<p>The same goes with meetings. It is funny because there are formal meetings and informal meetings and there should really be room for both. When we talk about useless meetings &#8211; how often do we mean the informal meetings? But do we plan for them?</p>
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		<title>By: Martha Roden</title>
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		<dc:creator>Martha Roden</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Nov 2008 21:52:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My experience is that most developers are not great communicators by nature and are not always the most socially adept people. Their jobs typically force them to focus on the technical task at hand, so it&#039;s tough to get them to think of the big picture or how what they&#039;re doing may affect others (or vice versa.)

This means that when issues arise (as they always do), a developer is often the last person to feel comfortable sitting down and talking directly to another person about what&#039;s going on. Instead, developers often use email to discuss serious issues. Unfortunately, my other observation is that few programmers are good writers -- at least from the perspective of writing clearly and getting to the point. So this means that the emails, reports, or tweets they send rarely solve the problem.

I recommend that members of the development team practice talking to one another, asking questions, and learn to overcome the discomfort of saying &quot;Sorry, I was wrong,&quot; or &quot;Can you explain that again? -- I&#039;m not sure I understand.&quot;

The more people communicate honestly and clearly when they speak, the less they&#039;ll have to resort to confusing, long-winded emails that often get misunderstood.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My experience is that most developers are not great communicators by nature and are not always the most socially adept people. Their jobs typically force them to focus on the technical task at hand, so it&#8217;s tough to get them to think of the big picture or how what they&#8217;re doing may affect others (or vice versa.)</p>
<p>This means that when issues arise (as they always do), a developer is often the last person to feel comfortable sitting down and talking directly to another person about what&#8217;s going on. Instead, developers often use email to discuss serious issues. Unfortunately, my other observation is that few programmers are good writers &#8212; at least from the perspective of writing clearly and getting to the point. So this means that the emails, reports, or tweets they send rarely solve the problem.</p>
<p>I recommend that members of the development team practice talking to one another, asking questions, and learn to overcome the discomfort of saying &#8220;Sorry, I was wrong,&#8221; or &#8220;Can you explain that again? &#8212; I&#8217;m not sure I understand.&#8221;</p>
<p>The more people communicate honestly and clearly when they speak, the less they&#8217;ll have to resort to confusing, long-winded emails that often get misunderstood.</p>
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		<title>By: Timothy Kim</title>
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		<dc:creator>Timothy Kim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Nov 2008 17:19:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great point, I do use a lot of email but I hardly write in them. Instead I attache videos of myself talking about the project or send recorded audios of the conversion with the client. Might not be direct communication but it beats trying to interpet an email.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great point, I do use a lot of email but I hardly write in them. Instead I attache videos of myself talking about the project or send recorded audios of the conversion with the client. Might not be direct communication but it beats trying to interpet an email.</p>
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		<title>By: Luis De Jesus</title>
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		<dc:creator>Luis De Jesus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Nov 2008 05:37:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello Chris,
Very interesting conversation point. In my experience I have found that there are 3 types of people:
1/ People that make things happen
2/ People that watch things happen
3/ People that wonder what happened

Business units or Departments are a form of community that will be made up of these types of people. The clash in these groups is generally only from the first sector. People trying to make things happen that are going in either apposing or possibly conflicting directions. Generally it is type 1 fighting their way through type 2&amp;3 groups.
Your comment is so correct when it comes to type 1 groups.
They need to stay focussed to talk, agree, plan, action and review as only by discussions they can agree and take action. Via meetings we plan together and take the necessary actions to close the gaps in our targets.

The issue is &quot;Lean&quot; is being replaced by &quot;use to having&quot;. We can no longer trim down easily as the influences of type 2 &amp; 3 have become so common place in our world.
Look at the news...once upon a time 1 hour would give you all the day&#039;s news...Now it is a day long event, bombarded from everywhere and anywhere with information. The ones who watch things happen - they report, whilst the ones who wander what happened - they watch. Incidentally, not to do anything about it but just to be aware.

Those that make things happen are busy doing, talking to encourage and improve...Quite often accused of not listening enough or being dangerous to the status quo...Do remember we are in the minority.

Thanks for allowing me to express my views.
Respectfully,
Luis De Jesus

Interestingly, every now and then the information being shared to type 2 &amp; 3 about extraordinary type 1 people, can motivate them into action and a subsequent change. This then raises the question &quot;is all the information cost and sharing, worth the converted few we get as a result&quot;. The statistics in a high growth market says a resounding &quot;yes&quot;, but let us see in a low percentage growth period that is coming (arrived aready) what the answer will be.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Chris,<br />
Very interesting conversation point. In my experience I have found that there are 3 types of people:<br />
1/ People that make things happen<br />
2/ People that watch things happen<br />
3/ People that wonder what happened</p>
<p>Business units or Departments are a form of community that will be made up of these types of people. The clash in these groups is generally only from the first sector. People trying to make things happen that are going in either apposing or possibly conflicting directions. Generally it is type 1 fighting their way through type 2&amp;3 groups.<br />
Your comment is so correct when it comes to type 1 groups.<br />
They need to stay focussed to talk, agree, plan, action and review as only by discussions they can agree and take action. Via meetings we plan together and take the necessary actions to close the gaps in our targets.</p>
<p>The issue is &#8220;Lean&#8221; is being replaced by &#8220;use to having&#8221;. We can no longer trim down easily as the influences of type 2 &amp; 3 have become so common place in our world.<br />
Look at the news&#8230;once upon a time 1 hour would give you all the day&#8217;s news&#8230;Now it is a day long event, bombarded from everywhere and anywhere with information. The ones who watch things happen &#8211; they report, whilst the ones who wander what happened &#8211; they watch. Incidentally, not to do anything about it but just to be aware.</p>
<p>Those that make things happen are busy doing, talking to encourage and improve&#8230;Quite often accused of not listening enough or being dangerous to the status quo&#8230;Do remember we are in the minority.</p>
<p>Thanks for allowing me to express my views.<br />
Respectfully,<br />
Luis De Jesus</p>
<p>Interestingly, every now and then the information being shared to type 2 &amp; 3 about extraordinary type 1 people, can motivate them into action and a subsequent change. This then raises the question &#8220;is all the information cost and sharing, worth the converted few we get as a result&#8221;. The statistics in a high growth market says a resounding &#8220;yes&#8221;, but let us see in a low percentage growth period that is coming (arrived aready) what the answer will be.</p>
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		<title>By: Michael Murdoch</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michael Murdoch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2008 21:12:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Communication is at the heart of the issue. No tool or methodology is going to replace straightforward, timely, and accurate information distribution by whatever means. Being between gigs, I have fired up my Art of Scrum blog again and tackled this very issue in the context of Daily Scrums, which can turn into mechanical and valueless exercises unless the communication is focused and appropriate. Tools are not a substitute for process, and process is not a substitute for communication; it is surprising how many people believe you can replace one with the other rather than building them all on a common high quality framework. I&#039;d be interested in any feedback if you are so inclined.

http://froggacuda.wordpress.com/2008/11/17/art-of-scrum-agile-does-not-mean-by-the-seat-of-your-pants/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Communication is at the heart of the issue. No tool or methodology is going to replace straightforward, timely, and accurate information distribution by whatever means. Being between gigs, I have fired up my Art of Scrum blog again and tackled this very issue in the context of Daily Scrums, which can turn into mechanical and valueless exercises unless the communication is focused and appropriate. Tools are not a substitute for process, and process is not a substitute for communication; it is surprising how many people believe you can replace one with the other rather than building them all on a common high quality framework. I&#8217;d be interested in any feedback if you are so inclined.</p>
<p><a href="http://froggacuda.wordpress.com/2008/11/17/art-of-scrum-agile-does-not-mean-by-the-seat-of-your-pants/" rel="nofollow">http://froggacuda.wordpress.com/2008/11/17/art-of-scrum-agile-does-not-mean-by-the-seat-of-your-pants/</a></p>
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		<title>By: Ron Jacques</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ron Jacques</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2008 20:43:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree that as technology progresses, it seems that folks &quot;communicate&quot; less. As a Lean practitioner, one of the key elements in continuous improvement is how to deal with information transfer and decision making. Many folks feel that E-Mail and other electronic modes of communication have collapsed the distance between communicants, but these modes have not eliminated the root cause, time to make the decision and a bias towards action.

In truly lean organizations, decisions are made at the point of generation by those closest to the process. If we continue to need multiple layers of approvals by non-resident or absentee process owners, there is no form of electronic media that will guarantee the approval is given, only that it gets there faster and waits longer. Those who truly improve, have moved decision making down in the organization to the point of execution.

I feel that we have all come to rely on technology to make things faster, but until we can all agree on the process and make decisions in &quot;real&quot; time or face to face, technology will just seem like hurry up and wait. How do we utimately make decision making faster?

Regards,

Ron Jacques</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree that as technology progresses, it seems that folks &#8220;communicate&#8221; less. As a Lean practitioner, one of the key elements in continuous improvement is how to deal with information transfer and decision making. Many folks feel that E-Mail and other electronic modes of communication have collapsed the distance between communicants, but these modes have not eliminated the root cause, time to make the decision and a bias towards action.</p>
<p>In truly lean organizations, decisions are made at the point of generation by those closest to the process. If we continue to need multiple layers of approvals by non-resident or absentee process owners, there is no form of electronic media that will guarantee the approval is given, only that it gets there faster and waits longer. Those who truly improve, have moved decision making down in the organization to the point of execution.</p>
<p>I feel that we have all come to rely on technology to make things faster, but until we can all agree on the process and make decisions in &#8220;real&#8221; time or face to face, technology will just seem like hurry up and wait. How do we utimately make decision making faster?</p>
<p>Regards,</p>
<p>Ron Jacques</p>
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		<title>By: Dana Richardson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dana Richardson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2008 16:44:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Beyond getting your teams to communicate, they must know how to speak to each other in simple terms. Jargon and rambling can become confusing and frustrating, often causing persons to run back to the safety net of &#039;black and white&#039; corp. email. Add in the readily available reply mechanisms - Crackberry&#039;s, 3g/EDGE etc. and most will never venture outside the world of their cubicle walls.

Many of my fellow technology professionals cannot communicate beyond tech acronyms or concepts, and it kills their organizational visibility. The few team members that can wear both an IT hat and a &#039;Joe the Plumber&#039; hat are the heavy hitters and always in high demand. They&#039;re not necessarily any smarter than the jargon slingers, but again, are extremely more visible. Consequently, they&#039;re also the folks getting the nice raises and upward momentum.

My suggestion is to look into your local Toastmaster&#039;s club. The Toastmasters organization is priceless for persons looking for a safe place to learn how to communicate better. A great quote I heard once was &quot;Toastmasters is a great place to come and fail, er practice.&quot; Very highly recommended.

Best Regards,
--D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Beyond getting your teams to communicate, they must know how to speak to each other in simple terms. Jargon and rambling can become confusing and frustrating, often causing persons to run back to the safety net of &#8216;black and white&#8217; corp. email. Add in the readily available reply mechanisms &#8211; Crackberry&#8217;s, 3g/EDGE etc. and most will never venture outside the world of their cubicle walls.</p>
<p>Many of my fellow technology professionals cannot communicate beyond tech acronyms or concepts, and it kills their organizational visibility. The few team members that can wear both an IT hat and a &#8216;Joe the Plumber&#8217; hat are the heavy hitters and always in high demand. They&#8217;re not necessarily any smarter than the jargon slingers, but again, are extremely more visible. Consequently, they&#8217;re also the folks getting the nice raises and upward momentum.</p>
<p>My suggestion is to look into your local Toastmaster&#8217;s club. The Toastmasters organization is priceless for persons looking for a safe place to learn how to communicate better. A great quote I heard once was &#8220;Toastmasters is a great place to come and fail, er practice.&#8221; Very highly recommended.</p>
<p>Best Regards,<br />
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		<title>By: Stan Green</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stan Green</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2008 15:29:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I see four factors that have moved us towards electronic communications over personal. 

The first factor is related to what the current generation expects. Today’s younger generation (I’m not saying where I fall in this.) grew up with technology all around them. The web/internet is a way of life not just an option. They have learned to process information much differently then their parents. Every person under the age of 30 that has a cell phone knows how to text. I’ve seen people in the same room texting to each other! If this is how they share and process information, support them, don’t try to change them.

The second factor is related to issues such as Enron and the sub prime meltdown. In the corporate world today, more than ever, “if it is not written down, it was never said”. We need to be able to prove conversations and decision occurred. Additionally, we need to document who made the decisions. Failure to document is to invite trouble.

The third factor is information dissemination and transparency. The use of tools such as wikis and blogs allow us to say something once and provide a way for many people to use that information. This enhances the value of the communications as more people can make use of the information.

Lastly, there is the need for asynchronous communication over synchronous communication. In today’s world, we are expected to take on many roles and projects. In this mode, we cannot always engage in synchronous communication (i.e. talking to someone). We need asynchronous communication in order to prioritize what we do when.

Maybe if you want to have dinner one day, we could sit and talk about this.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I see four factors that have moved us towards electronic communications over personal. </p>
<p>The first factor is related to what the current generation expects. Today’s younger generation (I’m not saying where I fall in this.) grew up with technology all around them. The web/internet is a way of life not just an option. They have learned to process information much differently then their parents. Every person under the age of 30 that has a cell phone knows how to text. I’ve seen people in the same room texting to each other! If this is how they share and process information, support them, don’t try to change them.</p>
<p>The second factor is related to issues such as Enron and the sub prime meltdown. In the corporate world today, more than ever, “if it is not written down, it was never said”. We need to be able to prove conversations and decision occurred. Additionally, we need to document who made the decisions. Failure to document is to invite trouble.</p>
<p>The third factor is information dissemination and transparency. The use of tools such as wikis and blogs allow us to say something once and provide a way for many people to use that information. This enhances the value of the communications as more people can make use of the information.</p>
<p>Lastly, there is the need for asynchronous communication over synchronous communication. In today’s world, we are expected to take on many roles and projects. In this mode, we cannot always engage in synchronous communication (i.e. talking to someone). We need asynchronous communication in order to prioritize what we do when.</p>
<p>Maybe if you want to have dinner one day, we could sit and talk about this.</p>
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		<title>By: Ramakrishna Arni</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ramakrishna Arni</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2008 15:20:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Undoubtedly face-to-face/in-person communication is the best form of communication and should be strived for as much as possible especially if the topic of discussion is significant/complex. This makes it more efficient to discuss a variety of alternative approaches at the same time helping with building rapport. Phone calls come in next. Chat/IM should be used to communicate something really quick/simple. Email is typically a good medium to record notes/conclusions/minutes/steps/action items/etc. and should not be used as a means for &quot;brainstorming&quot; a topic.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Undoubtedly face-to-face/in-person communication is the best form of communication and should be strived for as much as possible especially if the topic of discussion is significant/complex. This makes it more efficient to discuss a variety of alternative approaches at the same time helping with building rapport. Phone calls come in next. Chat/IM should be used to communicate something really quick/simple. Email is typically a good medium to record notes/conclusions/minutes/steps/action items/etc. and should not be used as a means for &#8220;brainstorming&#8221; a topic.</p>
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		<title>By: Glenn Puchtel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Glenn Puchtel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2008 14:28:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I would argue the problem is not that we forgot how to talk to each other, rather, that we never learned how to listen to each other. Case in point, this forum, which is not unique in this affliction; how many posts are redundant? How many posts simply paraphrase a previous post? In effect, we are talking over them – we are not listening, we are creating noise. We would rather hear ourselves, even though someone else has already captured the essence than to stay quite – it is undeniable, and too often irresistible.

“Many attempts to communicate are nullified by saying too much.” – Robert Greenleaf</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would argue the problem is not that we forgot how to talk to each other, rather, that we never learned how to listen to each other. Case in point, this forum, which is not unique in this affliction; how many posts are redundant? How many posts simply paraphrase a previous post? In effect, we are talking over them – we are not listening, we are creating noise. We would rather hear ourselves, even though someone else has already captured the essence than to stay quite – it is undeniable, and too often irresistible.</p>
<p>“Many attempts to communicate are nullified by saying too much.” – Robert Greenleaf</p>
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		<title>By: Kenneth Lang</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kenneth Lang</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2008 14:07:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with most of the comments here. In-person communication has to be the starting point for all other communication (e.g. phone, email, IM and wikis). By meeting/speaking with people I learn a lot about their personalities and how they&#039;d prefer staying in touch as needed. It&#039;s also all about respect because we&#039;re all busy, differently, and a few minutes of one-to-one time helps more than any scheduled meeting with a dozen or so attendees.

I&#039;ve also found that too many people I work with don&#039;t understand how important good manners are, especially in a business setting.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with most of the comments here. In-person communication has to be the starting point for all other communication (e.g. phone, email, IM and wikis). By meeting/speaking with people I learn a lot about their personalities and how they&#8217;d prefer staying in touch as needed. It&#8217;s also all about respect because we&#8217;re all busy, differently, and a few minutes of one-to-one time helps more than any scheduled meeting with a dozen or so attendees.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve also found that too many people I work with don&#8217;t understand how important good manners are, especially in a business setting.</p>
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		<title>By: Nishikant Shirpurkar</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nishikant Shirpurkar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2008 13:44:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have come across many occassions when two people sitting next to each other used emails or chat as mode of communication.
I belive the team members should be encouraged to have face to face meetings or group discussion with each other whenever possible.
Many a times I have observed that talking to each other facilitates relationship development and team building which is essential for the success of any activity.
For me e-mails, chat etc are just tools to facilitate but can not replace talking. I would rather suggest the team to record the outcome of these discussions to be documented and circulated. In cases where the teams operate remotely we use such tools.
Another advantage of face to face communication would be communication through body langauge. Why else we are using the web conferences?
To conclude, each tool needs to be used based on the circumstances, but not as a replacement of talking.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have come across many occassions when two people sitting next to each other used emails or chat as mode of communication.<br />
I belive the team members should be encouraged to have face to face meetings or group discussion with each other whenever possible.<br />
Many a times I have observed that talking to each other facilitates relationship development and team building which is essential for the success of any activity.<br />
For me e-mails, chat etc are just tools to facilitate but can not replace talking. I would rather suggest the team to record the outcome of these discussions to be documented and circulated. In cases where the teams operate remotely we use such tools.<br />
Another advantage of face to face communication would be communication through body langauge. Why else we are using the web conferences?<br />
To conclude, each tool needs to be used based on the circumstances, but not as a replacement of talking.</p>
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		<title>By: Hemant Desai</title>
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		<dc:creator>Hemant Desai</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2008 11:16:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It is an interesting topic, I agree.

Brainstorming for design or a requirements walk through
achieves better results than merely the standard process documentation / tools of communication.

And yet I have seen design meetings yield no results and requirements walk through make requirements no more clearer than they were before.

In-person communication / meetings is a tool and like any other whose success depends on the relevance and applicability of this particular tool to the given situation and the capability of the participants to utilise the tool.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is an interesting topic, I agree.</p>
<p>Brainstorming for design or a requirements walk through<br />
achieves better results than merely the standard process documentation / tools of communication.</p>
<p>And yet I have seen design meetings yield no results and requirements walk through make requirements no more clearer than they were before.</p>
<p>In-person communication / meetings is a tool and like any other whose success depends on the relevance and applicability of this particular tool to the given situation and the capability of the participants to utilise the tool.</p>
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		<title>By: Ed Taaffe</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ed Taaffe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2008 09:37:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This much the same message I have been delivering also.
Great boring tomes  of paper filed in dusty cupboards or their electronic equivalent are sometimes necessary, especially in public life, but they are not communication. People still have to talk to each other and to spread enthusiasm and motivation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This much the same message I have been delivering also.<br />
Great boring tomes  of paper filed in dusty cupboards or their electronic equivalent are sometimes necessary, especially in public life, but they are not communication. People still have to talk to each other and to spread enthusiasm and motivation.</p>
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		<title>By: Nasir Mahmood</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nasir Mahmood</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2008 05:27:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Chris:
This is a great topic and an excellent discussion. I agree with you. Nothing moves people to action more than the spoken words. For fast action, there should be a lot of reliance on verbal communication.
I wonder why people avoid having a “face-to-face” communication. Is it the fear of getting an unfavorable response? Or do we avoid direct communication because of the departmentalized culture at which we are working? Or is it the apprehension that meetings tend to be lengthy while emails can be precise.
While the first priority should always be face-to-face communication, a follow-up documentation helps to avoid distortion in communication. Especially, when the issue discussed is to travel between different people. Furthermore, documentation has a long life and can be referred back, whenever required. I would prefer all decisions taken to be subsequently documented.
Emails have there own benefits. Sometimes when I am at production floor and not locatable, I receive emails. I respond according to my convenience and the urgency of the issue. Through emails, we can reach many people simultaneously, regardless of time difference or geographical location.
The ideal situation will perhaps be a mix of face-to-face and digital communication. Personal judgment can play a very important role in selecting when to use which method.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Chris:<br />
This is a great topic and an excellent discussion. I agree with you. Nothing moves people to action more than the spoken words. For fast action, there should be a lot of reliance on verbal communication.<br />
I wonder why people avoid having a “face-to-face” communication. Is it the fear of getting an unfavorable response? Or do we avoid direct communication because of the departmentalized culture at which we are working? Or is it the apprehension that meetings tend to be lengthy while emails can be precise.<br />
While the first priority should always be face-to-face communication, a follow-up documentation helps to avoid distortion in communication. Especially, when the issue discussed is to travel between different people. Furthermore, documentation has a long life and can be referred back, whenever required. I would prefer all decisions taken to be subsequently documented.<br />
Emails have there own benefits. Sometimes when I am at production floor and not locatable, I receive emails. I respond according to my convenience and the urgency of the issue. Through emails, we can reach many people simultaneously, regardless of time difference or geographical location.<br />
The ideal situation will perhaps be a mix of face-to-face and digital communication. Personal judgment can play a very important role in selecting when to use which method.</p>
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		<title>By: Vasudevan Mooss</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vasudevan Mooss</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2008 05:13:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A &quot;flatter world&quot; also means a world independent of location/language/culture/time etc. Naturally this entails alternative methods of communication than F2F mode. Now &quot;collaboration&quot; is the key word. This requires us to move away from a &quot;synchronous mode&quot; of communication to an &quot;asynchronous mode&quot;. If you look at the evolution of various communication methodologies over time, it proves that they are driven by need for collaboration on a wider basis. Outsourcing/offshoring/de-risking strategies only speeds up the need for it.

As argued by technical architects, an async interaction mode helps to handle larger volumes through prioritization (euphemism for ignoring), multi-tasking, loosely coupled (location/time independence) mode, etc. These seems to be equally applicable to us now! And we end up creating separate folders in our email boxes and setup rules for handling various messages based on source, importance, time, nature of content etc...:)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A &#8220;flatter world&#8221; also means a world independent of location/language/culture/time etc. Naturally this entails alternative methods of communication than F2F mode. Now &#8220;collaboration&#8221; is the key word. This requires us to move away from a &#8220;synchronous mode&#8221; of communication to an &#8220;asynchronous mode&#8221;. If you look at the evolution of various communication methodologies over time, it proves that they are driven by need for collaboration on a wider basis. Outsourcing/offshoring/de-risking strategies only speeds up the need for it.</p>
<p>As argued by technical architects, an async interaction mode helps to handle larger volumes through prioritization (euphemism for ignoring), multi-tasking, loosely coupled (location/time independence) mode, etc. These seems to be equally applicable to us now! And we end up creating separate folders in our email boxes and setup rules for handling various messages based on source, importance, time, nature of content etc&#8230;:)</p>
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		<title>By: Brent Benning</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brent Benning</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2008 04:41:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with you that face to face conversations tend to produce more accurate information. It is much easier to have a question and answer session when you don&#039;t bring in technology that most people do not know how to use. I have seen companies make technology work, but they have more training involved than most companies are willing to supply. That is my take on technology in business. The lack of taking action is a whole different issue I could spend hours discussing my observations.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with you that face to face conversations tend to produce more accurate information. It is much easier to have a question and answer session when you don&#8217;t bring in technology that most people do not know how to use. I have seen companies make technology work, but they have more training involved than most companies are willing to supply. That is my take on technology in business. The lack of taking action is a whole different issue I could spend hours discussing my observations.</p>
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		<title>By: Kamal Karera</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kamal Karera</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2008 03:26:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Direct communication is the key to corporate success. It provokes the present to decide its future. Diplomatic replies, indirect answers, hints etc only delay the inevitable. Some of the results of being direct maybe unpleasant, but persistent approach in this manner yields rich dividends on project success. Spontaneous decisions with this approach are the highlight. It also brings up the collective and personal weaknesses upfront and a chance to correct them upfront, an objective which a diplomatic communication may not have achieved.

The bottom line is &quot;In corporate environment, its the right and wrong that builds the foundation of success, NOT the good and bad.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Direct communication is the key to corporate success. It provokes the present to decide its future. Diplomatic replies, indirect answers, hints etc only delay the inevitable. Some of the results of being direct maybe unpleasant, but persistent approach in this manner yields rich dividends on project success. Spontaneous decisions with this approach are the highlight. It also brings up the collective and personal weaknesses upfront and a chance to correct them upfront, an objective which a diplomatic communication may not have achieved.</p>
<p>The bottom line is &#8220;In corporate environment, its the right and wrong that builds the foundation of success, NOT the good and bad.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: isacraig (isacraig)</title>
		<link>http://edgehopper.com/did-we-forget-how-to-talk-to-each-other/comment-page-1/#comment-1459</link>
		<dc:creator>isacraig (isacraig)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2008 02:04:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tweeting is cool and everything, but check out what Chris has to say about truly communicating:  http://is.gd/8O46 Seems talk is underrated.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tweeting is cool and everything, but check out what Chris has to say about truly communicating:  <a href="http://is.gd/8O46" rel="nofollow">http://is.gd/8O46</a> Seems talk is underrated.</p>
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		<title>By: Bhardwaj Velamakanni</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bhardwaj Velamakanni</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2008 01:01:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Huntly: And, afterwards in the retrospective the individual says &quot;I did what I was required to do&quot; but the question is &quot;Did they do what the project needed&quot;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Huntly: And, afterwards in the retrospective the individual says &#8220;I did what I was required to do&#8221; but the question is &#8220;Did they do what the project needed&#8221;.</p>
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